To put everything on the line, is a choice. Each choice contains it's own set of pros and cons. There's never a case of "pao jia", where u win everything.
What really matters, I believe, is what one values most. And that comes with each's priority and perceived importance of each priority to that person per se.
The dilemma surfaces when there are conflicting interest.
It gets worse.. When there are increases of this conflicting interest.
What happens when one's interest does not matche another's interest? Conflict arises. And how do u resolve that? Find a middle ground where both parties can agree on and uphold. Upholding this decision/position requires sacrifices and conviction. U nv get everything on the table in life - u take some, u give up some.
Textbook stuff from organisational and human behaviour..
But sometimes.. U know.. it is pretty hard to put into practice in reality.
Haa I guess I am getting too heated up, I need to cool down, go take a shower.
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Monday, December 06, 2010
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Things that are currently on my mind now..'071)uni admission..still waiting for rmit's confirmation on my accounting degree course.either that or i will take up life sciences or mass comm.
2)work! haha.. need a work after i ord on NOV 5th.(hope i can get the cold storage christmas order job).
3)ps3! been playing it pretty much.. haha.. need to go read up my newsweek(s) and jog! ha...
4)eh..share-on team, dunno how sharon and the team is doing..hope to catch up with them soon..
7)taekwondo, dunno whether i should go practice hard for my dan2 next year or not.. and to improve my sparring..
8)well... juz catching up with friends..
Things needa do and on my mind 08!
9)staying in school if need be to finish my assignments
10)take more photographs!
11)start to write in chinese and english everyday~! haha..
12)learn how to play "Our Song 1" on guitar! thanks jh!
13)run a half marathon and a full marathon!
14)finance my lappy! and also my education.(trying out smu after first sem)
15)do my best in my role to make OD a success
16)national bronze(tkd)->Did not take part
17)YVIP'08 comm if possible.
18)get my insurance license
19)do my best TO make YV'08 a success, esp the attachment part!
20)try ta run every morning!
21)get my driving license come march 6th!-got it on may 27th!
22)Successfully develop Share-On Welfare Organization's System of Governance.
23)Complete Army Half Marathon! 24/8/08
24)Final sem results for Sem2 2HD, 2DI.
25)Complete Standard Chartered Marathon! 7/12/08
26)Owe Zhing a bday meal, Lyon a meal for that bet on Alvin.
27)Worked in cafe cartel, and want to work in another job after that.
My To-Do list in year 2009
28)Get my GPA up to 3.5 by the end of the year.PS->End up only maintain gpa at 3.2 haa
29)Start to sleep earlier and wake up earlier for my morning exercises.
30)Pass Ippt with silver.
31)Run and complete Army Half Marathon and Standard Chartered Marathon 2009.
32)Go for an overseas trip, be it backpacking or O-CIP. PS->I went as far as malaysia's custom haa
33)Fight for Share-On Welfare Organization to build it's own centre.PS->Gave up on SHOT,it's ideals
34)Learn to cook up a FULL dinner course.PS->Done tt over x'mas gathering at Serangoon with YLF!
35)Set up SIM-CSC if opportunity arises.PS->Going to materialize in 2010(refer to NYRESOLUTION 2010
36)Find a job and start working and saving up money for my goals in life.
New Year Resolution & To Do List 2010
37)To set up SIM Social Work Club.
38)Maintain GPA @ 3.2. Aim for GPA 3.5
39)To help 24 person.(/strike>
40)Practise TKD and get NCAP lvl 1 Theory. Run SCM & AHM + 1 other event. Pass Ippt. Learn Swimming.
41)Learn Malay Language & Japanese Language.
42)Follow my Loan Repayment Scheme.
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