Wednesday, May 24, 2017

Advise is like an edged sword -
It is well intended,
amalgamation of logic, empathy, pointed direction,
Akin the steely strength of a sword.

Besides that, people easily forgot, how an advise is also like
The purpose of the sword -
To cut, to kill;
the effective use of the sword, is the same as the issuance of an advise.

I need to be more tactful in putting myself in the shoes of others,
Always reminding myself to keep it light hearted, as a reference point
For the receiver of the advise to further elaborate on the usability and
Applicability of the advise.

Then, will sword cut in the right angle

Wednesday, December 28, 2016

Everyone will pass away one day.
1) Should we be sad that he/she passes on,
2) or Should we be happy and sad about his adventure in this life time, his/her journey
3) Should i think so hard, or feel so bad about the things that happened?
4) or Should i take it real hard on myself?
I think i lack some general big arrow direction in my life.

Monday, December 19, 2016



Tuesday, October 18, 2016

“Coming together is a beginning; keeping together is progress; working together is success.” - Henry Ford 

Marraige life is so different in a way.

Long were the days where my mum will nag me to shower and study.

Gone were the personality clashes because my Dad is a strong man with a keen interest in keeping us in check.

Freedom to choose what i want to do in my own house, my own property, is the new tune to my life.

The rythmn to my life revolves around my wife and me and how we keep the house clean, the activities coming up, the give and take of life.

Somehow it feels foreign and surreal.

Which forces one to grow up.

Wednesday, June 01, 2016

Every time you flip over a page of a calendar.
I sense a feeling of freshness.
The new page of dates, dotted with upcoming activities.
Anticipation, excitement, passion fills the brain.
Its an amazing 1 month thus far!

Saturday, April 23, 2016


Saw a post on fb that shows a cancer survivor telling her story. How she realised she had cancer and made a decision to travel the world, completed the 7 wonders of the world, came back and defeated cancer.

Tonight was also the fight night at zouk for our fighters. Amazing! We won 2 out of 3 games. Congratulations to dedication and passion! Chris fight on for another day!

The only person that can tell us its impossible is myself. Keep the faith and passion py.

Reminded of karen yong teacher's gift to me on choices too.


Thursday, April 14, 2016

Walking towards the road of marraige

There are times in my life where i felt surreal. 

This is one of such time. 

A defining moment in my life, a milestone. 

One step at a time, i am approaching my milestone.